On Getting Sober

DreamWorks created My DreamWorld with Trolls and Justin Timberlake

If I were ever able to create my very own dream world, it would look something like this:

  • A landscape of brightly colored daisies and positive, funky, cool imagery
  • Musical-theatre-type dialogue where people burst into song anytime, anywhere
  • One universal “healthy” body type so no one worried about eating too much pizza or ice cream
  • Mandatory hugging at various times throughout the day
  • And? Justin Timberlake. All. Day. Long.

What if I told you such a world exists AND that I had the good fortune of visiting such a place?

Well, it does and I did.

Yes, dear readers, I found my very own personal heaven. It’s a land called Troll Village and soon, everyone will get to visit this utopia when the upcoming DreamWorks’ movie Trolls hits theaters on November 4th.

Trolls with Justin Timberlake

The masterminds behind the animated classic Shrek have created a hairy, merry fairytale that will make you laugh, cry and hug your neighbor.

My visit to this fantastical, magical world came by way of a media badge at Comic Con where I attended the Trolls Panel in Hall H and then sat in a blogger roundtable with Mike Murphy the director, Walt Dohrn the co-diretor, the producer Gina Shay, and stars of the film, Anna Kendrick, and the one and only Justin Timberlake.

Yes, I met friggin’ Justin Timberlake.

Mary & JT

Let’s just take a moment to reflect on that.

I met Justin Timberlake. Say wuuuutttt?!

If you’ve been a follower of the Mama Mary Show on any channel for any substantial period of time, you know that this is a situation of MONUMENTAL importance.

I’m a die-hard JT fan and can’t think of any of celebrity I’d rather meet. So besides being

connecting with deceased loved ones through dreams as seen on the doctors

Connecting with loved ones with dream incubation

If you’ve ever lost a loved one, you know that dream visitations are a precious occurrence. I have very vivid dreams of my dad and always have mixed emotions when I wake–a combination of disappointment that he’s not really there and a sort of elation that I was able to spend time with him.

A few weeks ago, I was asked by a producer of The Doctors TV show (the former producer of the Fox 5 morning show) to meet with a dream analyst, Cynthia Richmond, who helps people connect to their deceased loved ones via (more…)

an interview with rare bird author anna whiston-donaldson

Anna Donaldson interview image

A little over two years ago I discovered a blog called An Inch of Gray through some tweets cryptically recalling a horrific accident. A little boy, a storm, a river.

As I read the raw, gripping words written by a mother consumed with grief after losing her 12-year-old son Jack just days prior, I wept and prayed for a family I had never met. Anna’s writing made me feel as if I was there with her and that I had known her forever. She was me, she was my friend, she was every mother who has ever loved a child. The immeasurable pain she recounted touched my heart so much that I reached out to her via comments, emails, blog posts and even through a video about Justin Beiber.

Over time and over the Internet, Anna and I became friends. We have never met in real life, but we connect in a very real and emotional way. Grief brought us together, but a commonality of searching for light and meaning has kept us connected.

On the two-year anniversary of the death of her precious Jack, she released her first book, Rare Bird–a memoir of the first year of life after Jack died. As she states in the book, it was not

moms discuss 5 am feedings and cindy crawford’s un-touched photo

Moms discuss Cindy Crawford on Fox 5

This week the Internet nearly broke because of an un-airbrushed photo of Cindy Crawford in a bra and panties. Stories about body image always get good traction and this one was no different. The photo resonated with a lot of people–it certainly did with me. Being a woman with many imperfections, it’s nice to see “supermodels” in all of their un-airbrushed glory.

Can we just place a national ban on airbrushing? No? Okay, just checking.

Anyway, we discussed the Cindy Crawford pic on Ask the Moms, along with how to prepare your kiddo for a doctor’s appointment and how to wean your little ones off of that dreaded 5AM feeding.

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a new chapter and locker room talk with will smith

The beginning of 2015 has gotten off to an amazing start with lots of positive changes in my life, one of which begins today.

For the first time in 6 years, I am officially a full-time employee. I’ve been hired to write creative content for a social media company that I have been freelancing with for the past few months. I love the company, the work, and the flexibility in hours they are affording me. Plus, I’ll still be able to blog and do my weekly Ask the Moms gig so don’t worry, Mama Mary fans, I won’t be going anywhere.

I am looking forward to this new chapter in my life, one that is coming on the heels and in-step with another enormous change in my life.

As I begin this new journey I am holding on to some wisdom imparted by the esteemed Will Smith on Jimmy Fallon’s first night as host of the Tonight Show.

The Fresh Prince talked about having a big mid-40’s birthday. Instead of fearing his